Fellatio
Fellatio is oral
sex performed on a man. One thing remains true in all
oral sex encounters: good oral sex starts with good
communication. Finding out what he likes will go a long
way to performing satisfying oral sex. Giving great
fellatio is not a difficult task once you know where to
begin. Too many people during fellatio concentrate
solely on the penis. The penis does contain highly
sensitive erectile tissue, but there are many other
sexually sensitive areas on a man’s body. So let's meet
the private parts of Your lover : Penis - the penis is
made up primarily of spongy tissue, which becomes
engorged with blood during erection. Two or three inches
of the penis are rooted inside the body in the
pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) and it is possible to
strengthen this muscle for stronger erections, stronger
orgasms and better ejaculatory control. Testicles - are
Your sperm production area. They hang down, away from
the body and as you prepare to ejaculate, the testicles
are pulled toward the body. Stimulating testicles
especially during ejaculation is highly pleasurable.
Prostate - is a gland that lies at the center of your
pelvis and is highly sensitive to sexual stimulation.
During erotic stimulation, the prostate becomes
increasingly aroused. The closer you are to orgasm, the
more sensitive the prostate is. About 1/3 of your
ejaculate comes from the prostate. The prostate can be
stimulated externally or through the anus. Perineum - is
the area between the base of the testicles and the anus.
This area can be very sensitive to sexual stimulation,
especially during orgasm. It is also used when You want
to delay ejaculation.
Pubococcygeus (PC) Muscle - it is actually a group of
muscles that run from your pubic bone in front to your
tailbone in the back. It is the muscle that contracts
when you ejaculate, moving the semen up through the
penis and out of the body. Anus - Due partly to it's
proximity to the prostate gland and partly to its own
high concentration of sensitive nerve endings, the anus
is a highly erogenous zone for many men (both gay and
straight).
Now You've met it's time to learn how do man like it.
During oral sex the penis can be stimulated while these
other areas are massaged. Many men like to have their
scrotum and testes fondled or licked during oral sex.
keep in mind that massaging these parts may bring much
more pleasure.
Although main thing in fellatio is concentrated around penis You
should know that stimulating other parts can be
stimulating too. Many men like to have their scrotum and
testes fondled or licked during oral sex. This could be
as simple as placing your hand and cupping the scrotum,
or as bold as taking the testes into your mouth. The
most erogenous zones on a man’s genitals include the
back of the head of the penis, the line of skin that
runs down the center of the testicles, and the underside
of the shaft of the penis. Try stimulating these areas
with your tongue as well as taking the entire penis into
the mouth. Many men likes to have their perineum stroked
since this area is sensitive when the male is aroused.
Now You've prepared him try one of these:
1. Have one or both hands around the base of his cock
pumping away as you suck on the tip. Start by caressing
his inner thighs while You're sucking on the tip. As you
go deeper and deeper down the shaft, begin to caress his
balls. Try using one hand to pump the bottom third of
his cock as you suck away at the top part.
2. You can do the same thing as above but keep the head
of penis in Your mouth and do the circular motion with
Your tongue.
3. Do it now without hands. Each time You stroke down
Your head swing a little.
4. Many man likes when You do gentle tongue licking of
the penis and balls.
And what about Your pleasure!? Unless You feel the pure
pleasure of the idea of giving a blowjob to Your loved
one there are two things You can enjoy. You can always
stimulate yourself with Your free hand and You can enjoy
the taste of pre-ejaculate - penis liquid witch will
arouse not just Your pleasure but Your partners also.
One of the keys to good fellatio is to spice up the routine every
once in a while with a new position or technique. But
remember the key thing here: it should always be
comfortable to You and to Your partner. A common
position for fellatio is when the man receiving sits or
lies on a bed with You kneeling or laying on the ground
in front of him. This gives You complete access to the
penis, scrotum and anus. The position is also at a good
angle for the throat so that entry of the penis into the
mouth is not a problem. Similar to this is when Your
partner is standing up straight and You kneeling in
front of him. Either You will blow him off or he can
slowly insert his penis into Your mouth. Another
position that may interest you and your partner is to
allow the man to very carefully insert and withdraw the
penis from the mouth as above bur this time with You
lying on the bed. Finally there is the old 69 or why not
he gives me the pleasure also. Either with one You above
on all fours, or laying on each other’s sides. It may be
better to try having the man lay on his back so You can
better control penetration in Your mouth. So You know it
all now but remember one thing. The key, like in
everything You do, is to feel the chemistry between the
two of you and to be able to talk about what You like
and what You don't like.
Oral sex in general is a way of sharing most intimate parts and in a way
Your sexual preferences. It is like telling to Your
partner "I love to please You as much as I love to
please myself". Don't make out of Your fellatio just a
foreplay to regular sex. It can be as hot as sex itself
only if You set Your mind to it. Many couples use
fellatio as a mean to greatly enhance their sexual
experience and pleasure. I love giving a quick blow to
my hubby mostly because I love the taste of
pre-ejaculate - penis liquid and that makes me wet and
horny. And I love to see the look on his face once I
take it in the mouth and squeeze his balls. No matter
what my favorite position is 69 with me on top. It gives
You total control over his and Yours pleasure. Changing
the speed and position gives You room to experience
different reaction form Your partner. Remember one
thing. Experiment a lot and stay open minded to Your
partners wishes. That's the only way You both could
really enjoy all a fellatio can give. |