Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus is the act of using
the mouth to stimulate the female genitals. This can
include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of
the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation
of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus to be the
most satisfying sexual act. I know this sounds boring
but that's the best description I could find. Now what
is the mystery of cunnilingus ( better known as licking
and pussy eating)!? The fact that almost 70% of women
are unable to reach orgasm (vaginal that is) makes them
turn to stimulation of clitoris, witch is the core thing
of cunnilingus. A great number of women report that oral
sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. That's
where You fit in.
First, you should know that lots of women are shy about
their body. Work on her psychologically. Tell her she is
beautiful. Complement her on her look and her great boy.
Make her trust you and feel comfortable with you in bed.
It is much important for a good lick as it is for good
fuck so make her feel wanted. After first shy remarks be
aggressive a little. Complement the breasts and ties.
Tell her how much you're looking forward to tasting her
sweet juices. Sweet talking is just to get her in the
mood. Remember, each woman is different. Some techniques
work better one kind of woman than another.
Before You go of meet what You'll be working on Your
partners private parts:
Vulva - or the pussy is folded around itself. Sexual
excitement will open it like a pretty pink flower. And
how to open it!? Lightly use the tip of your tongue.
Slide it from the top of the slit to the bottom. Very
slowly repeat this until you see the unfolding. This is
caused by the woman's sexual excitement engorging her
pussy with blood. The labia majora are, pussy lips. The
pussy lips are comprised of erectile tissue. Meaning
that they fill with blood as sexual excitement builds.
The outer more prominent lips are the labia majora. The
inner pussy lips are called the labia minora. Both are
extremely sensitive to the tongue and lips.
Labia Majora and Labia Minora are the keys that unlock
the terrifically sensitive clitoris. Pussy juice or
vaginal fluid is comprised of glucose and fructose. In
other words, sugar. If you ever run into a pussy that
smells like fish. You can be pretty sure that the woman
has an infection and should see a gynecologist. Pussy
Juice has a slight syrupy consistency which makes it an
excellent natural lubricator. The clitoris or clit is
the most sensitive place on the woman's body. It swells
with blood as it is aroused. It is interesting to note
that the clit and a head of a penis are made of same
tissue. The clint is the zone we're looking for.
When you start to touch and caress her, don't go down
straight to her sex, start slowly to caress her other
erogenous zones of her body, and kiss her gently. Have
in view her face (lips, eyes, neck, etc.), breasts,
belly, and only after that her legs. Especially take
Your time with nipples since nipples have a direct
neural connection to the clit. This all will relax her
and prepare for upcoming pleasure. Remember and take
your time with everything You do. You must understand
the sensitive nature of a pussy. You cannot be TOO soft
when you eat pussy. You cannot hurry it along to orgasm.
(Make her cum) You must give the woman time, lots of
time, for her sexual excitement to build. The labia fold
must be parted by gentle touches of the tongue in oral
sex. Everything You need is there: sensitive pussy lips
that along with excitement gives You a clear opening to
the clit. Use Your tongue gently making pussy juice
perfect lubricant to each and every part of pussy.
Gentle moves will get You to the pleasure You both seek.
Just don't rush with it and what ever You do don't use
Your teeth. Take Your time and examine Your partner
while Your doing it. Her face will let You know if Your
on the right way.
When I talk abut cunnilingus techniques one thing has
got to be said first: generally, licking the clit only
drives her to orgasm but in order to for You to be
remembered You should spice it up a little. That's when
a word technique is implemented. One thing tough. It is
magic or chemistry between You two that make this all
work as a miracle. Your into this together. Watch her
mood. If You have an open relationship she'll tell You
when to stop or do it faster, when to do this or that.
Don't rush in bringing her to the peak. The longer You
keep her excited better it'll be for You.
These are just few tips from my own meandering
experience. No women is the same and some thing may not
be pleasant with something You do. Don't be turned off
just watch her reaction and do the thing she likes. This
is what You may do to spice it up a little:
1. Locate the base of the clit with the tip of your
tongue and being tracing slow circles around the base.
Your tongue will frequently be rubbing up against the
sides and tip of the clit as you circle - this just adds
to the pleasure. Vary the speed as you go, taking her
through several waves of pleasure. You also may use the
tip of your tongue to trace a figure 8 around her clit.
Don't be afraid to knock the clit around a little bit as
your tongue darts one way and then another. The
sensations of you coming at her from all sides at once
will thrill her with delight.
2. Sucking on a clit. Now be very careful the first time
you try sucking on a woman's clit. Some women are very
sensitive and will shriek in pain. For the most part,
once you've warmed her up with a little licking on the
clit, place your lips gently around the clit and give a
soft suck. You'll get a reaction right away. Remember no
to use Your teeth. If she likes it, do it again and
again, sucking a little harder and longer each time.
3. Stiffen your tongue and thrust it deep into her
vaginal opening. Wiggle the tip around a bit if you can
at the point of maximum penetration. Move your head and
neck back and forth so that your tongue is "fucking" the
vaginal opening.
4. You can do a wonderful job stimulating the clitoris
with your fingers. Use one or two fingers to stroke the
clitoris from bottom to top in each direction. You'll
feel the little nub get harder and harder as you go.
Most women can achieve orgasm using this simple
technique alone. Add a little fun by inserting one or
two fingers into the vagina. Again, start slowly and
rather than thrusting your fingers in and out, use a
"come here" motion. You're likely to hit the g-spot and
the clitoris over and over doing this and may very well
send yourself into a screaming orgasm as a result.
Position of giving a pussy licking depends on likes and
dislikes of You partner and of course on Your
durability. You do not wish to be in a position where
You can't keep Your body too long. There are few simple
and most common one You should try:
1. A lot of sub variations on laying flat position, as
you can situate yourself many different ways to give
cunnilingus to a woman who is laying on her back. A
great beginner position is to have her laying flat on
her back with her legs completely spread. Approach from
between her feet and lay on your stomach between her
legs with your lips at clit level. Another great one is
to have her lay on the edge of the bed with her legs up
in the air. Approach from the floor and as you put your
head between her legs, let them drape over your
shoulders.
2. With her standing facing you, kneel directly in front
of her and position your lips at clit level. This is a
great position to use your hands and fingers as they are
freed up to explore.
3. Chairs and couches provide can be stimulating
accessories that allow for some unique positions. Try
having her sit in a chair with arms, draping her legs
over the arms. Approach from below.
4. The doggy style with her on all 4 waiting for You to
explore and all time favorite 69 with great benefit that
You receive as well as give pleasure.
You may certainly think few more positions but it all
really is a combination of the ones already mention.
Remember the key thing here is for the position to be
comfortable for the both of You.
Many couples, straight or lesbian, use cunnilingus as a
mean to greatly enhance their sexual experience and
pleasure. I love pleasing my partner with good clit rub.
For me it is a part of foreplay as we'll as receiving a
blowjob. For me it all starts from the magic we have
between the two of us.
The key issue is to make her trust you and feel
comfortable with you in bed. Make her feel wanted and
needed. Make her feel Your gonna do anything to please.
When you start to touch and caress her, don't go down
straight to her sex, start slowly to caress her other
erogenous zones of her body, and kiss her gently.
Her pussy is unique. Learn to love it as You go along.
Learn what she likes and what makes here especially
sensitive to. Do it gently, she will like it for sure,
any girl likes her sex to be caressed. After you caress
her pubic hair, continue with her labia, and with her
inner lips. Don't start to rub, even gently, with a dry
finger! It's unpleasant for her, and you'll ruin the
evening. Gently insert a finger or two inside her sex,
you'll also see how wet she is (or not yet!) and your
finger will stay wet this way. Even if you start to see
her clit (which for most women is small and hidden, when
not aroused), don't touch it yet. You can start by now
to kiss her inner side of the legs. Don't rush with
that, if you want to lick your lover's sex for HER
pleasure too, and not only for yours, you have to make
her reach that moment when she becomes totally aroused,
just waiting for your tongue to fulfill its mission.
Now it all seams so familiar, right!? So what makes good
pussy licking different!? Not the technique. Not the
position. Even not the sexual fantasy stimulation but
the pure chemistry of the two of You and the ability to
share Your personal sexual experience. |